Want to give her lingerie but afraid of making the wrong choice? Don't panic. Here's a simple and clear guide to help you choose the perfect gift and make her happy.
How can I easily find out my size?
You don't need to be an expert. To find the right size, start by discreetly checking the labels on her underwear.
When you look at her bras, you will see a number followed by a letter. The number indicates the band size (for example, 90 cm), and the letter corresponds to the cup size (for example, B, C, D).
For bottoms, it's simpler: the panty size is often the same as the pants size (e.g., 36 = S, 38 = M).
Take a photo or note down several sizes, as they can vary slightly between brands. If you're hesitating between two sizes, choose the one that appears most often.
Choose a style that suits your body type
Not all lingerie styles flatter the figure in the same way. Here's how to choose easily.
- Small to medium bust : Lightweight triangle shapes offer a natural effect. You can also choose a push-up style to add volume or a bandeau bra for a discreet look under clothing.
- Medium to full bust : Balconette or demi-cup bras create a lovely décolletage. A plunge style, which dips between the breasts, is also very flattering and perfect for deep necklines.
- For a generous to voluminous bust : Opt for a full-coverage model that guarantees optimal support, or a structured bustier for a seductive look and reinforced support.
For the stockings:
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Panties : Ideal for all body types.
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Shorty : Covers more of the hips, perfect for balancing a slender silhouette.
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String : Highlights discreet buttocks and gives a very sexy effect.
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Tanga : Nicely accentuates the shapely hips.
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High-waisted briefs : Perfect for shaping the tummy and creating a pin-up effect.
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Brazilian : More revealing than briefs, it elegantly highlights the buttocks.
Look at what she usually wears to stay close to her preferred style.
Also discover: How to choose your lingerie according to your body shape
Choosing the right color
The color of her lingerie should enhance her appearance and reflect her personality.
- If she has fair skin , opt for soft shades like sky blue, lilac, nude, or dusty rose. Bold colors can sometimes clash with very fair skin.
- For a matte complexion , opt for warm and deep shades: ruby red, emerald green, royal blue.
- Dark skin tones can pull off absolutely anything, from luminous pastels to very bright colors, including dazzling white lace.
Also consider the color of her hair:
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Blonde hair : Pastel and cool tones like blue, sea green or pale pink enhance it.
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Brown or chestnut hair : Warm colors like red, burgundy, chocolate or gold are perfect.
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Red hair : Emerald green, navy blue or deep red highlight her fiery hair.
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Black hair : Almost any color works, but vibrant shades like bright red or purple create a beautiful contrast.
Also consider her everyday style: if she prefers understated outfits, opt for black, white, or nude lingerie. If she loves prints and bright colors, you can choose a bolder piece.
And never forget: a black outfit remains a safe, chic and timeless choice.
Also check out: The symbolism of colors in lingerie
Choose the right time to give it to him
Giving lingerie as a gift requires a bit of tact. Ideally, it should be done in a romantic and relaxed atmosphere.
Plan to give him/her your gift after a romantic dinner, during a cozy evening for two, or during a weekend getaway.
Avoid handing him the package between two activities or during a stressful moment: it is better to create a context conducive to complicity.
Remember to take care with the packaging and slip a sweet note into the package to make this moment even more special.
What if you're afraid of making a mistake? Safe alternatives
Not entirely sure about the size or style? Here are some simple and effective solutions.
You can offer a gift card : she can choose the perfect outfit according to her tastes and body type.
Or, consider items that are easier to give as gifts:
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A kimono made of delicate satin.
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A light lace nightgown .
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Fancy stockings or tights .
Whatever you choose, accompany your gift with a personal touch to show that this gesture comes from the heart.
Why choose PARFAIT AMOUR lingerie?
PARFAIT AMOUR is aimed at women and couples who like to spice up their relationship with boldness and sensuality.
We offer ultra-sexy lingerie, designed for those who fully embrace their desire and intimacy.
Whether you're looking for a delicate lace set, a provocative bustier, an open bodysuit, sophisticated garter belts, or BDSM-inspired pieces, our diverse collection caters to all desires.
At PARFAIT AMOUR, each design is created to enhance the body, inspire confidence, and ignite the spark of love. Fishnet, satin, leather, lace: explore all the materials and styles to create unforgettable moments.

